It’s no secret – many of us start looking for a new job from a place of dissatisfaction. We hate our boss, there has been restructuring, we want more money, we want something more satisfying, we don’t like co-workers, we are overworked. All of them have such negative connotations – we start from a place of lack – where we are looking to fill a need that is not currently being fulfilled.
How do we end up on the back foot
This can actually skew our opportunities. Instead of coming from a place of knowing our own worth and abilities, we start from a desperate point – we start on the back foot. So we start to wonder if we can do the job, if we are good enough, what did we do wrong to get us to this place where we are so unhappy,
If you are coming from this point of view, you can almost bet that there will be someone else who will win your dream job over you!
You truly can’t be looking for a new job and expect the best for yourself if you are unhappy and feeling lack of self worth.
Don’t get me wrong – a little bit of contrast is good for us. That realization that we want more or deserve better can be very very powerful! BUT if you want to find your dream job, if you want to be the one to win out over the other candidates, it is important that you make sure you give yourself the best chances for success!
How to get in front
- The very first step is to truly know why you are looking for a new job, write down the tangible and measureable reason/s;
- Once you have identified the reason/s, make sure that you remove any lack of self worth feelings (ie: don’t allow your reason to be because you have failed or have shortcomings) if the reason is more money – make sure you know how much more you want and why you deserve it!
- Now CLEARLY identify what it is you do want! Please – don’t say “I want a better job” get SPECIFIC!!
- Now you need to decided WHY you would be good at it and all the good things you will bring to a new role, and finally
- Go get ‘em!!
Once you remove the ‘emotive’ responses, once you clearly identify the facts of what you don’t want, what you do want, what you deserve and why you deserve it – THEN you are in front!! Then you will shine at interviews and impress potential employers!
Employers are looking for someone who can convey their confidence and self worth, their ability to perform and earn. This is not a call for arrogance, but simply putting in place the above steps will help you to shine and put your best foot forward!